Identifying CCC Communications
Learn to recognize signs of coercive custodial control through real-life message exchanges and communications patterns
Understanding the patterns of communication used in coercive custodial control situations is crucial for identifying and addressing these behaviors. Below are real-life examples of message exchanges that demonstrate common tactics used to manipulate, intimidate, or control parents.
Educational Purpose: These examples are based on real
situations but have been anonymized to protect privacy. They
illustrate common communication patterns seen in coercive custodial
control scenarios.
Recognizing Warning Signs
Threats & Intimidation
- Threats to take legal action or remove children
- Ultimatums with unreasonable deadlines
- References to authority figures or institutions
- Implications of harm or consequences
Manipulation Tactics
- Gaslighting and reality distortion
- Guilt-tripping or emotional blackmail
- False urgency or manufactured crises
- Playing victim while being the aggressor
Control Patterns
- Demanding immediate responses
- Excessive monitoring or surveillance references
- Attempts to isolate from support systems
- Financial control or withholding
Documentation Tips
- Save all messages and communications
- Take screenshots with dates visible
- Note patterns of behavior over time
- Keep a detailed log of incidents
Need Help?
If you're experiencing coercive custodial control, you don't have to face it alone. Our team can help you understand your rights and connect you with appropriate resources.